Ever notice how some people seen to feel others are the source
of their problems. It’s not their fault if fate, kismet, karma or life dealt
them a less than perfect life. In fact, you are not making things better when
you tell them that we all have things to live with that we don’t like.
Every one of us meanwhile, especially us Women, can
catalogue and list many, many things that we do not like about our appearance.
From there we can tell you what is wrong with almost anything. When we are on a
roll, nothing seems to be going right; then the list goes on and on. Hopefully, however, it’s just because we
are having a bad day or better still, a bad couple of hours.
I say, a bad couple of hours because I believe you can
stop your whole day from turning into a mess by becoming aware that you have just
told someone else (most likely in a whiny voice) about whatever it is that you
feel is going wrong for you today.
I’m not breaking new ground here. If it’s not us, it
someone within hearing range. The memory will be fresh in most of our minds
about how awful it sounds and how sometimes we’d like to tell the person to
stop and/or go out of our hearing range because we can’t hear ourselves think.
If it’s you doing the rant/whine/complaint or whatever,
be aware that you are at your worst. Your face is contorted, you definitely are
not smiling and you are not about to win any prizes for good will or your good
attitude.
Think about it and be aware that you can do better and
probably should before your whole days goes down the drain as one big downer.
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