ANYTHING IS BETTER THAN THIS...

I have become a real believer in Fresh Starts. Every morning can be the dawning of a new day. It could be the first day of the rest of your life. I don't really know why suddenly one day Polyanna woke up and replaced the person who figured this is as good as it gets and, it might just be time to Suck it Up.

Regardless of how or when, the two views are part of the same person, one figuring SAME OLD, SAME OLD (or worse S.S.D.D.*) and the other saying WHY NOT GO AND GIVE IT A SHOT; WHAT HAVE YOU GOT TO LOSE?

A good point that, Do we have to hit rock bottom and have run out of options before we try something new or is there something inside us that gets us to get up to a new day and give something new a try without having completely run out of options beforehand?

I believe we can change, every one of us, but only when we are ready to do so. It won’t be on a specific day or at a predetermined time either. I think it is just when we personally are ready to dip our toe into the (surprisingly) warm water of change.

Sometimes it does take a calamity or a disaster to make us say, What’s The Worst That Can Happen? and figure that Anything Is Better Than...what is currently happening. However, it doesn’t need to be hitting Rock Bottom; it may be just that the Sun came up this morning or we decided to take a risk because it felt like it would be O.K.

Whatever moves you, do it in your own time, in your own way and you can own it and make it yours as you head in the new direction and into your happier future.

* S.S.D.D. - Same S--- Different Day

Also - song – Falling by Donna Weston 1999 from the movie Simply Irresistible which I think of as: Where do we go from here?