HOW TO TURN YOUR LIFE AROUND

Whether you believe it or not, the world is your Oyster. Each of us has a lot of options whatever our circumstances, and wherever we find ourselves at this moment.

To begin with, we have the day in which we find ourselves. A while ago, I asked myself...and you...WILL TODAY BE A GOOD DAY OR A BAD DAY? and I put it out there, that you could have some choice, you could decide, which it was going to be.

I believe we have a decision to make every day. In fact, we have a lot of choices that we make. The choices we make effect our day, our week, our month, our year and could quite easily effect our whole lives. Think about it.

Almost everybody knows, or if they are lucky, used to know, someone who is like a 'dark cloud'. Every time you meet them, they seem ready to tell you about everything that is wrong. They will tell you what is wrong with their health, their job, their life, their spouse, their parents, their friends and, if you are really lucky and they are going full tilt; what has always bothered them about you.

Needless to say, when they finally leave and tell you they'll see you later, most of us mumble to ourselves, "Not if I see you first".

There are other people who seem always to have some calamity in their lives. They seem to be running hard and always running, but somehow although they are frantic and exhausted, they never seem to do anything but run.

The opposite is the person so laid back, that a permanent state of MANANA has become a way of life for them as they put off until tomorrow what they needed to do today, or yesterday, or last week. Their homes and their lives are a perpetual DIY (do it yourself) project.

The disorganized person, the procrastinator, the chronic complainer and the pessimist, do not recognize that the choices they have made, make their lives the way they are.

Whichever group we find ourselves in from time to time, we could be making a new decision turn our lives around and become someone who knows that today is going to be a good day. 

When we make choices to work with possibilities and opportunities, instead of either letting either the things or the people around us pull us down, when we would really like to go up.