One step at a time.
Make a decision to
be happy every day. Find something you like in every day, however small.
Think of good people
you have met, know now, and see around you.
Greet someone you
meet cheerfully. Perhaps when you buy a coffee, say hello and something
cheerful (as an example).
Smile. Smile at the
mirror, it raises good energy. Take the smile outside and see others respond.
SMILE - ITS ADDICTIVE AND CONTAGIOUS is what I wrote about. This works, and you
see it work right away.
It is small things
that start you going forward again, not running away (to create the same
situation somewhere else) or brooding alone and miserable.
Look for whatever
works to lift you up and add a little bit of something new every day. Soon you
will see you feel better.
Forgive yourself for
a bad decision. One decision will not be your whole life. Much more will happen
to you. It will not all be bad. Build on what has happened since.
Think about how you
saw something before and how you see it now, with the benefit of time
passing.
Decide you will give
new things a new perspective and a chance to be seen as an opportunity. Only
you and I can change how we see things.
Small steps will
start you off. Small steps, one by one, will also take you where you are going.
I know for sure,
where you are going isn’t backward, into the past. You don’t live there any
more. That is over. You are a different person now. Time to move forward.
Hope some of this
helps get you started.
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